You warn family friends not to bring up certain topics, avoid locations in the community where you might see co-workers or friends, and not speak to others for fear of the 20 questions. There is no way they are going to select me for a Seattle event or have one in my small town.
Were it not for social norms being imposed top down by older women on younger women I suspect as a way for bit on the side dating site women to try and keep the higher value older men as mating partners for themselvesI suspect most younger would date older men. One minute it s, You re a wonderful man and you re gonna be a great step-father and the next minute it s, He s trying really hard and we re going to try and make it work.
They understand that relationships just don t work by themselves, so t hey work on their relationship.